10 signs that he is really a big boy
Now After reading this Article, Kindly tell us if you are a big boy or not We know some of you would still lie
Now, Lets get down to business.
Being a BIG boy is all about Growing up
and letting some things go rather than trying to fight tooth and nail Just to win an argument.
What’s the use?
Many call themselves BIG BOYS according to their own standards but things have changed.
What then are the Top Qualities Of A Big Boy? Checkout all the qualities you must possessed before you can be considered a big boy.
If u don't posses at least 4 of these qualities, then Mr big boy you are far from it.
1. HE DOESN’T SHOW OFF BEFORE LADIES
Some guys are simply funny. They sight a pretty lady and they start acting like “junkies”, No naaa!
The girl is in your taxi that’s why you brought out your Samsung Galaxy Tab and start playing compulsory Candy Crush and Temple Run Oz that you haven’t played for a long time.
There is God ooo!
2. HE DOESN’T “PURSUE” LADIES ON THE STREETS
To some guys, Jungle never mature oo!
After NYSC, they’re still disturbing the girl’s life with “oh baby, wait na, I have something to tell you” lol…You wan preach the Word of God?
I’m not saying you can’t stop a girl NICELY to share your affection.
Make sure you’re just not pursuing her. Be mild in your “desperation”/ pursuit.
3. HE DOESN’T DO THINGS TO ATTRACT UNNECESSARY ATTENTION
I believe, only kid-boys do this. They shout and yell but when you get closer, NOTHING!
SOME open “CONTROVERSIAL” threads, so to speak, just to attract “CHEAP” attention. NO! That’s not the way! A big boy is himself but his best self. He strives hard to be better.
4. HE HAS HIS OWN MONEY
It may not be in millions yet but at least he has a stable influx of income. He always look for ways to survive and make his Family happy.
I buy his reasons. No Big boy lives on friends or others! He may ask but he doesn’t depend on you.
Some guys still beg their girl to send them airtime. #I Laff in Japanese
5. HE IS FINANCIALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR THE UPKEEP OF HIS GIRL
If you’re “privileged” to have a girl who loves you, buying her things will just be natural. A Big boy will never complain if his girlfriend ask of Tfare anytime she wants to come around.
You may bash me but I don’t care! If she is not just a séx doll to you but a potential wife, transport fare isn’t a topic! hmmmm…
6. HE DOESN’T ALWAYS INVOLVE IN ARGUMENT WITH HIS GIRL
Your lady might wrong you and still expect an apology. Stupid right? A big boy tells her the sorry and she feels stupid after that! She’ll find a way to apologize…
Some will be involving in e-war with girls on Social media. If I find myself arguing with her, I quickly apologized. Make peace reign. After that, I noticed all of them saying same things like: ” I’m more sorry, take a hug” etc.
Big Boys Apologize. Small Boys Don’t Apologize.
7. HE TRIES HARD TO FULFILL HIS PROMISE
If you made a promise to her to take her to the PROMISE eatery on Saturday. Try to keep to that. Even if it becomes impossible, sincerely assure her that you’ll make it up to her and really do make it up. It says a lot about your personality.
Probably, your thinking was wrong about who a Big Boy is. It’s not about “Low waist” and Having Seven Girlfriends oo… It’s about being responsible to One girl. As they say, the greatest sign of maturity is Responsibility.
Don’t be like the average Nigerian guy whose dream is in his pee pee…No! Aim higher.
8. HE HUMBLES HIMSELF & DOES NOT MAKE OTHER PEOPLE FEEL LESS OF THEMSELVES
Some self acclaimed BIG BOYS can be so silly. Probably because they were privileged to get a degree from a reputable university, they keep raising shoulders making every other person look like they have a slim chance of making it in life.
A Big boy understands the principles of life and he knows fully well that life sometimes favors the illiterates even more than the educated ‘cos he understands the dynamism of life, therefore he does not pride himself.
9. HIS FINANCES DOES NOT BECLOUD HIS RIGHT SENSE OF REASONING
Some dudes stop holding conversation with their neighbors or friends the moment they climb onto the ladder of success. They find it difficult to mingle with other people because of ego boasting.
A Big boy is well behaved and does not allow his success becloud his right sense of reasoning.
10. HE DOESN’T BELITTLE OTHER PEOPLE’S ENTITY
A Big Boy appreciates the good work of others rather than those who derive pleasure in bad-mouthing it. Some self acclaimed working class dudes are quick to condemn and rubbish their handworks.
A Big boy praises and encourages you even if you are not so doing well.